When we say something is better than it used to be, that doesn’t mean it’s good, that means that whatever that thing is, it’s still not good, it just used to be worse. It’s a phrase that is meant to appease people. So when we acknowledge that seeing pregnancy during and after birth is beautiful is better than it used to be, we’re saying we know we haven’t gone far enough. Many mothers feel that, after birth, they aren’t sexy anymore. It’s what society shoves down our throats. It’s why “dropping the baby weight” makes magazine covers. And it’s bull.
Mothers can be and still are sexy. It’s all about a frame of mind, about combating the society’s nonsense and embracing who you are and what you got going on. There are many ways you can do this, and the only hard part about it is finding the willingness to see your sexy side despite the fact that society doesn’t seem to want you to.
See how you can get your sexy back by embracing yourself here: 5 Ways To Get Sexy Back.